Thread:FunAndGamess/@comment-34158552-20190915145425/@comment-40118372-20191107110558

Pokeballmachine wrote: thats a lot of spellings @turtle

and im actually really nervous right now

so yesterday this guy came up to me during gym and said he liked me and he wanted to go out with me. i'm a biromantic pansexual, and i want to know someone well before i became their gf. i said "i dont know" and rejected him

so today he asked me out AGAIN and im not sure if i want to go out with him??? i have zero relationship plans and multiple things happened today that people were trying to convince me to date him. he's also in my gym class and keeps constantly watching me and i feel somewhat uncomfortable about it, so im thinking about saying "no, im not interested in you romantically."

here's a few

this happened after gym yesterday

guy who wants to date me: heya can you go out with me please

me: i want to get to know you first

guy who wants to date me: oh you're rejecting me?

me: no i just want to find out more about you

guy who wants to date me: oh okay

this happened after gym today

guy who wants to date me: hey i think you're cute and you're good at basketball (we have to do basketball in gym)

me: thanks???

guy who wants to date me: you know, can you please go out with me??

me: like yesterday, i want to get to know you better

guy who wants to date me: oh

then one of his friends walks over and says this to me:

guy who wants to date me's friend: yo (my name) he actually really wants to marry you and he dreams about it. he dreams about having kids with you and the day you marry him!!

at this point i'm just absolutely shocked and i cover my mouth (in shock)

bell rings and i immediately head off to my next class trying to forget about this

this happened at lunch. so i sit away near the ampitheater where most sit; i sit at lunch tables. i dont buy lunch i just prefer tables lol. so uh turns out the guy who's flirting with me during gym and his friends found out where i sit at lunch, and he came over and attempted to sit next to me. my friend and i make cursed images during lunch because why not lol. this is how it went.

guy who wants to date me's friend: yo (guy who wants to date me's name) she's over there

guy who wants to date me: alright (attempts to sit next to me) fine if i sit here?

bell was going to ring in like one minute

me: well i dont want to get pregnant lmao. i'm not having your kids.

guy who wants to date me: nah its rare just let me

i pack up my stuff in silence

(bell rings)

me: well, um, bye then

my friend then immediately follows me. thank god that i dont have classes with him because i dont want to deal with being flirted with in class

so its basically around my school right now that i'm "dating him", even though i tell them "no; i am not dating (guy who wants to date me)" and im honestly nervous. im gonna try to move to a new lunch area tomorrow, but he most likely will have friends who will tell him my location. this is probably gonna go on nonstop until i finally say yes to go out with him

i'm trying to tell him, by ignoring him and whatnot that i am not interested in him romantically; he's pretty much doing anything for me so i can go out with him. i dont know about him much and im not sure what to do. help.

edit: about being flirted with in class i mean other classes besides gym That sounds awful, I don't have any romantic advice but just saying yes to get rid of him is not an option.