Thread:RobTheBobert/@comment-35137341-20191210010346/@comment-36309590-20191210040807

XiaolongDrake wrote: (microagression slowly builds up)

Jeremin19, on October of 2017, jumped off of the 5th floor of a Philipines mall and met her death, and that's why my life is at stake. I may be in a war right now on deviantArt, but that is how much I show as I am caring TO BOTH THE LIVING AND THE DEAD!!! YOU KNOW HOW MUCH THAT FEELS, as your PTSD builds up from the inside out as you slowly go insane as you life goes from normal to Hamlet in a blitz? THAT IS HOW I FEEL RIGHT NOW, GILIPOLAS?!! NOW STAY FROM MY SIGHT OR MY FURY WILL INCREASE MORE, MINUTE AFTER MINUTE, AS MY VERY HEART IS NOW HURTING FROM THE TORMENT FROM THE DEAD! I'm just a random passerby here, and my condolences to you as the death of someone close either virtually or physically is never an easy thing to deal with, but out of a duty to rational discussion and thought, I must ask you what that has to do with the original argument? Is it to show the same rage the other admin felt? A demonstration of sorts? If so then I suppose I understand, but if not then this was a rather unnecessary leap off topic.

Ah, and now onto the topic itself. Let me preface this by saying, identify however you like, it's all good with me. Now, onto the meat. I get how being mis-gendered can be an annoying and rage inducing thing for most people, but not all of it is done intentionally and getting pissy at someone simple because they fell back into a habit (one that has been ingrained since humanity first developed sentience by the way) of calling someone by the he/she pronouns is just unacceptable, not to mention immature. I understand the aggression and the rage, but I urge you to employ patience. Not everyone is used to this change in self identification right now, and they'll never be if the champions of it stoop to throwing fits like spoilt children who don't get their way. Like all things it takes time and a slow changing of the mind. And that can only be done if you don't launch into an emotion fueled rant every time someone slips up.

Now, if anyone would like to reply, do so. But do so logically and respectfully please.